Homeschooling your nonspeaking* child can feel scary. You know that the other educational options aren't great, but might feel unqualified or think that you don't have the time and resources to give your child what they really deserve.
But homeschooling doesn't have to be scary and hard.
It can be joyful, freeing... and easier than you ever imagined!
*We use "nonspeaking" on this page to refer to all nonspeakers, unreliably speaking and minimally speaking individuals.
You know most teachers and therapists mean well and may even love your child... And yet. They are not giving your child what they need. You have so much hope for the future but your heart is still breaking for your child on a daily basis. You are stuck and frustrated. It seems that drastic action is necessary, but that is terrifying and you feel frozen. But you also know that you can't wait for a system to change that takes years or decades to catch up with reality.
We have amazing news for you. You do not need to create school at home! In fact - why would you want to do that? School is exactly what what is failing your child! In NHS you will learn how to incorporate homeschooling into the life you are already living and meet your kid where they are. Instead of being constantly underestimated and compared to other kids, your child will feel valued, loved and make progress that they could never make in the school setting!
Hello! I'm Susan May, long time homeschool mom to my 3 children (17 yo, 14 yo and 8 yo). All 3 were homeschooled their whole lives. Besides homeschooling my teaching experience includes: High school science, Hypnobabies birth classes, and online English to students in China.
But none of those are what make me "qualified" to homeschool. I believe all parents are qualified to homeschool their children if they are willing to put the time and effort in. Most of that time and energy goes into unlearning "Truths" we internalized that are actually NOT true. The most important qualities a homeschool parent can have are being loving, patient, generous and a desire to create a rich life together with their children. Don't feel like you naturally have those qualities? Great news! They can be learned and cultivated.
I began Spelling with my son Carter in the Spring of 2023 when he was 7 years old. I love encouraging others and am excited for more Spellers to experience the joys of homeschooling.
I also have business experience organizing online communities and coaching, and am looking forward to utilizing those skills to help more families of nonspeakers thrive. NHS is a project I have been dreaming of for months, if not years, and am so excited to see it being realized now.
April Boden is a longtime homeschool mom to her 3 children, health coach, S2C practitioner and writer. She appeared with her son, Aydan, in the documentary Spellers that debuted in the Spring of 2023.
April is passionate and dedicated to helping nonspeakers unlock their voices through S2C and in addition to being a practitioner she offers consultations, coaching and writes lessons that she posts to her substack site for free and for sale.
**While April is a certified S2C practitioner, she serves in NHS as a homeschooling mom. For extensive spelling support, please find a local practitioner, or check out April's other services.
Does my loved one need to be nonspeaking and autistic for me to join NHS?
NHS is geared to helping families with a nonspeaking, unreliably speaking or minimally speaking member. There are unique challenges to homeschooling and life in our families. However, we know that there are many others who struggle with apraxia and speech challenges who are not autistic, such as individuals with Down Syndrome, cerebral palsy or other disabilities. We welcome anyone who feels NHS is a good fit for their family.
Do you need to be homeschooling to join NHS?
No! We welcome families who are currently homeschooling, researching it as an option or who choose to use other education options (public, private, tutoring etc.) but still feel NHS could benefit them in creating a thriving home environment for their family.
Does my Speller need to be open or fluent on the letterboard for me to join?
Absolutely not! In fact, Susan's son is currently working on the 3 boards and answering only "known" questions. We welcome families whose loved ones' skills on the board range from beginner to open/fluent. It is up to each family to decide whether NHS is a good fit and supports their family's needs and goals.
Are you targeting a specific age range for NHS?
We’re open to a wide range of ages considering that we’ll be targeting things that are helpful for all ages - spelling, motor skills and control, community integration and including our loved ones in all aspects of family/community life. My nonspeaking son is 8 but my 2 older kids are almost 18 and 15. April's son Aydan is 19 and also has 2 other kids, ages 20 and 9.
How is this different from a free Facebook group?
Free Facebook groups are great and serve a purpose, but they can only go so far. In a paid membership community your unique needs are the focus and you will receive a high level of ongoing support. There is also the additional benefit of your level of commitment. When you invest time and money into something, you are more likely to follow through on your intentions, build new healthy habits, and apply what you are learning.
Are there scholarship opportunities to help with the cost of NHS?
We are committed to keeping this amazing community and resource accessible. For families whose financial circumstances make joining difficult or impossible, we do offer assistance. Please email Susan at riseup@togetherwalking.com to schedule a call to talk about scholarship opportunities.
Homeschooling your nonspeaker starts with a courageous leap and becomes a marathon (with some sprints thrown in!)
Cultivating the mindset, habits and home routines that support not just your child, but you and your whole family takes time, perseverance and faith. Sometimes during the marathon we get bogged down and disheartened.
That's why doing all these things in community - with others on the same journey - will get you through the hard times when you doubt or think you can't go on.