Download Your Free 7-Step Action Plan Out Of Resentment

 Understand why you feel resentful and what you can do about it.

You’re parents now, and you love your partner, but something keeps niggling at you: why do I feel resentful?

Download my free guide and I’ll talk you through the top causes of resentment in couples who are raising children together, and the 7 steps you need to take to resolve it.

I know you’ve been feeling stuck, and maybe you've even started to think that this is just how it is once you have kids.

But it doesn’t have to be this way! Get started today making sense of your situation and what you can do to change it.


Hi, I’m Catherine Topham Sly and I’m a therapist specialising in relationships after kids.


How much do you want a happy, satisfying relationship with your partner, to provide a strong foundation for your kids?


Relationships after kids can be a bit of a shock! If you want yours to be one of the success stories, you need to avoid these same mistakes I see couples making time and time again after they become parents...


1. Being held back by embarrassment about how they feel

No one wants to resent the person they love, right? It’s an uncomfortable feeling. But when you keep it hidden, or blame yourself, both of you stay stuck.

2. Thinking “this is just how it is”

When you hear other people talking about how useless their partners are, you might think this is just what it’s like once you’ve had kids. But it doesn’t have to be this way!

3. Not knowing what to do about it, so doing nothing

Do you worry about what will happen if you talk about how you feel? Will it cause a row? Is it better to just get on with it? Let me talk you through how to talk about it so it brings you closer rather than driving you apart.

4. Not taking it seriously enough

I’ve worked with hundreds of couples who didn’t take the early warning signs seriously enough and ended up getting more and more disconnected over time. Don’t take that risk for your relationship - or your kids.

Download my free guide today and I’ll walk you through why you feel resentful, and what you can do about it. 

These free tips are cleverly designed to support you to strengthen your relationship so you both end up feeling happier and closer.

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